RE: Why married men post w4m
1."Why we really post on CL"
Here is the real reason you post.
2. "Posting and or answering ads comes down to one thing Loneliness "
You are lonely because you choose to be lonely.
3. "The type of loneliness that makes you question your existence. you know what I mean, its almost a bit somber."
Again you are choosing to be lonely. Do you think maybe if you made an effort to get to know your spouse again this may change?
4. "Face it CL is a place to unleash carnal pleasures and fantasy. It is to basiy feel.
No, creeps like you have made it a place like that. Instead of being able to meet nice, honest people on here. We get to meet creeps like you that lie to fill their selfish needs because you cannot be honest enough with yourself that you just might possibly be the reason you are lonely. Always easier to lay blame somewhere else.
5. "Feel wanted, desired, needed think about it. Sometimes one to the items listed or all ."
I am betting your spouse feels the same way. But that spouse couldnt get an ounce of your attention because you are too busy trying to get it elsewhere.
6. "Cl is full of married men and women all looking to feel. We have reached a point in our lives where our partners arent cutting it. Our partners dont get it They take us for granted they lose interest and the sex becomes routine or non existing ."
There sure is a lot of "They" in there. when is the last time you ever did something for ANYONE else other than yourself?
7. "Everyone has an insecurity !! SO PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE OR MAKE ANYONE FEEL BAD BECAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED AND POSTING ON CL"
I will judge YOU and I dont care if YOU feel bad because odds are good YOU could really care less how YOU make anyone else feel. If YOU are only out for YOURSELF at this point. If YOU are in such a miserable place in YOUR life then change it. Stop dragging other people into it and screwing up their lives because YOU arent happy. Those people did not get YOU there and they should women seeking fucking dating Napa not be the ones to suffer because of it. YOU need to make the changes because YOU put YOURSELF there. Now take some damn responsibility for YOURSELF.
Oh, I know the answer to that it is just too hard wah, I dont want to hurt anyone (as in the wife YOU cannot stand and family) But yet YOU depend on someone else to make YOU happy and have no problem when YOU totally fuck them up. YOU are one messed up person and all like you. Selfish, selfish, selfish.
8. "So with that being said happy hunting may you find the solace you are seeking on CL"
And hopefully YOU will take a look at YOURSELF.
9. "And ladies feel free to say hi if any of this resonated with you"
They would be crazy to contact you.